Recite the Serenity Prayer Often

The Serenity Prayer so neatly encapsulates the lessons of Stoicism and Buddhism: Tranquility comes from focusing on what you can control, and letting go of what you cannot.

God grant me the serenity

to accept the things I cannot change;

courage to change the things I can;

and wisdom to know the difference.

When you can direct your focus to what matters, you can also be a steadying force for other lives you care about.

“Be the promontory against which the waves break.”

~Marcus Aurelius, Meditations (Book)