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Avoid What Feeds You Without Nourishing You
Beware of Black Butterflies
Do the Right Things Quietly
Everything is Undergoing Constant Reassembly (Evolution)
Excessive Criticism is a Sign of Internal Conflict (Projecting)
Fear and Loneliness Cause People to Act in Self-Contradictory Ways
Fiction is a Reality Accelerator
Fire and Advance
Grow Inherently, Not Apparently
Honor Your Ancestors and Your Giants
If You’re a Parent…
Increase Your Optionality
Iron Never Lies
It’s Good to Quiver Under the Bar
Know What You Really Truly Like
Leave the Bucket
Life Evaporates When Taken Too Seriously
Listen More Than You Speak
Never Be a Victim
Painfully Correct Clichés
Pay In and Be Grateful to Do So (Grit)
See the Hands That Shaped the Clay of Hardened Beings (Empathy)
Seek Unwelcome Truths to Widen Your Base of Understanding
Speak to Yourself in Full Sentences
Start at Zero
Station Your Canaries (Leading Indicators and System Interrupts)
The Midst of a Great Big Thing
The People You Love Most…
The Richest Aspects of Life Are Often Those Spent In Service of Others
The Struggle Alone Is Enough to Fill Your Heart
Walk the Shoreline of Your Ignorance
We Change Memories When We Remember Them
Work Swells to Fill the Time Allotted for It (Parkinson’s Law)
Write for Exposure (But Not That Kind)
Write to Escape Your Default Setting
Write to Improve Your Career
Write to Pool Your Shifting Selves
Your Life Follows Your Attention
Your Unfair Advantage (Modesty)
Life: A Service Manual
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